Thinking About Self-control - Commentary

As we reflect on Ephesians 2:8-9, we are reminded that our salvation is a gift from God, not a result of our works. This foundational truth cultivates a heart of gratitude and humility. When we understand that we are saved by grace—God’s unmerited favor—we begin to see self-control not as an arduous task but as a loving response to that gift.

Consider the image of a gardener tending to a young tree. The gardener doesn’t merely plant it and walk away. Instead, he nurtures it, ensuring it receives the right amount of sunlight and water. In the same way, self-control is less about rigid restraint and more about nurturing the fruits of the Spirit within us, particularly agape love—selfless, sacrificial love. When love flourishes in our hearts, self-control follows naturally.

In our daily lives, we often face choices that test our self-control—whether it's a biting remark to a coworker or the temptation to indulge in unhealthy habits. When those moments arise, let us remember that exercising self-control is an act of love—both for ourselves and for others. It helps us reflect Christ’s character to a world in desperate need of hope and guidance.

By embracing the truth of our salvation and the love that compels us, we find purpose in our choices. Self-control, grounded in our identity as recipients of grace, is a pathway to spiritual growth. It leads us closer to the heart of God, guiding our lives to bear witness to His enduring love.