Thinking About Self-control - Teaching Material

Consider for a moment the incredible gift of grace described in Ephesians 2:8-9, where we are reminded that salvation is God’s work, not ours. "For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast." This profound truth does not lessen the call to self-control; rather, it elevates it.

Imagine a gardener, tending to a flourishing garden. Each plant represents different aspects of our lives. Self-control is the trellis that supports the vine of love, helping it grow tall and strong. Without this framework, our love can become untamed and wild, potentially leading to chaos rather than the beauty God intends. Just as the gardener prunes and trains, we must cultivate self-control through the Holy Spirit, not out of obligation, but as a response to the overwhelming love and grace we have received.

As we embrace this grace, we find purpose and guidance. Our self-control becomes an act of worship, reflecting God’s character to the world. When we practice self-control, we are not just restraining ourselves; we are actively choosing to love—agape (unconditional love)—with intention.

This week, reflect on one area of your life where self-control is needed. How might God be inviting you to depend on His grace to cultivate that self-control? As we do, let us share the hope and love of Christ, illuminating a path for others to follow.